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Joel Strom passed
away from COVID in early April 2020 at the age of
70. He was a member of House of Bamboo and grew up
in Rosedale and lived in Plainview. A Private
service was held New Montefiore Cemetery in
Farmingdale, NY.
Losing the use of
his leg as a result of cancer more than 20 years
ago did not stop Joel Strom from living his life.
The Long Island grandfather drove himself to work
every day, was obsessed with his grandson, and
loved devouring lobster with his friends in the
summertime.
Strom, 70, who
also had Parkinson's disease and some respiratory
issues, died this month as a result of COVID-19,
the disease caused by the novel coronavirus, his
daughter told BuzzFeed News.
Friends and
family are remembering Strom as a wonderful
father, wonderful husband, and wonderful
grandfather, and the best friend that you could
ever have.
Strom was not
tested for COVID-19, but his daughter Amy Strom
told BuzzFeed News a doctor told her father he was
a presumed positive case of COVID-19. Amy Strom
said he had most symptoms of the disease, including
a prolonged fever and a loss of smell and taste. He
died at his Long Island home on April 6,
2020.
The family has
not yet received the death certificate, and Amy
Strom said they were told to expect a delay because
of how many deaths are currently being
processed.
She, too, has
symptoms of COVID-19, she told BuzzFeed News
Tuesday.
My dad was
hands down one of the nicest, sweetest
[people] anyone had ever met. He was
literally, like, a selfless human being, Amy
said during a phone call. He wanted to make
people laugh all the time he wasn't funny at
all. He was not funny, but hed try
Dad
jokes. He tried so hard
He just wanted to
make people happy.
He worked as an
electrician and sold electrical supplies, and
continued to work even after hed lost use of
his leg. When people hear [he lost use of
his leg], they would think he was housebound,
but he wasn't, Amy said. He drove to
work every day. This man did so much
He was
just unbelievable.
Strom had two
daughters, the oldest of whom is expecting another
child in August, and Amy Strom said her dad was
such a girls dad.
I would ask
him, like, clothing questions and, like, he didn't
care at all. He had no fashion sense and genuinely
didn't care but would, like, pretend to care or
only care because it was me asking, she
said.
He also loved
Mickey Mouse, his friends Bruce and David, and his
grandson. My dad was obsessed with him,
Amy said of her nephew.
In late February,
Amy said Stroms family and friends threw him
a big surprise 70th birthday party. How crazy
that like right before it all happened he was able
to see all of his close friends and family,
Amy said.
One of his
longtime best friends, Donna Kopf, last saw Strom
at the party. The two had been best friends since
high school, and in a phone call with BuzzFeed
News, she said she and her husband and Strom and
his wife, Linda, would get together to spend summer
weekends together, and that the highlight was
always watching Joel eat lobster.
That was
his favorite activity. I will definitely miss that,
because he had a definite energy and skill where he
put all of his complete attention to the
task, she said.
Because he
couldnt walk up the stairs to stay in the
guest bedroom at her home, Kopf said they would
carry mattresses downstairs for Strom and Linda to
sleep on. Recently, Kopf said she redid the
downstairs bathroom and called Joel to tell
him.
[I
said,] I just redid your bathroom for
you, Joel. And now he wasn't even able to see
it, she said.
Both Kopf and Amy
Strom said despite his serious health issues, Strom
never complained.
He was that
kind of guy, like, he just persevered through it
all, Kopf said. And you never heard him
complain
He had such a great sense of humor
and hes just an all-around fabulous, fabulous
person
I mean, he just touched everybody's
heart.
From Buzzfeed
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