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Paul Garelick was
a member of the House of Bamboo from 1962-1965.
During his HOB days, Paul was definitely the
tallest member towering four or five inches over
six feet and was probably the most athletic member
leading HOB to first place in the intramuals in
1963-64 and second place in 1964-65. Paul was the
best handball player at Queens College and had
first place sewn up for HOB in that tournament.
Paul also loved the HOB mixers with female house
plans which in the early days were held in members'
basements. Paul would bring his tapes, which he
made of his favorite dance songs on the old
fashioned reels, and tape player/recorder. I still
remember the big New Years' Eve party we had in my
basement to ring in 1964 with most of the HOB
members attending with their dates, and dancing
until two or three in the morning to the music of
Paul's tapes (mostly slow and close).
Paul was part of
the famous HOB trio of himself, John Jokl and Barry
Tivin, who remained lifetime friends and who all
sadly passed away in the past five years. Paul
married John's sister Lillian who was also a great
friend of HOB while attending QC. Paul graduated
Queens College in 1965 as an accounting major, and
then became a mathematics teacher. He retired as a
math teacher from Benjamin Cardozo High School in
Queens several years ago. Paul had a very active
retirement and played tennis and jogged or walked
everyday. Paul also ran Come Together with Barry
Tivin for many years, which was a very successful
singles company on Long Island. Paul did use his QC
accounting education for his tax preparation
business. Paul and Lillian were also expert bridge
players and instructors.
Paul was in great
physical shape when he suddenly passed away in
February 2005 while he was watching television in
his lounge chair at the age of 61. I remember in
college he never drank or smoked and then when we
went on a cruise together in the summer 2003 to
Cozumel and Belize, Paul still didn't drink or
smoke and never had. Paul and Lillian were a great
couple and loads of fun to be with. Ruthann and I
still can't believe Paul left this world. Paul was
easy going, happy, a great athlete, and seemed like
he would live forever just like the House of
Bamboo. Paul is survived by his wife Lillian, who
was a teacher and is now a top administrator for
the NYC Department (formerly Board) of Education
working in the old Tweed Courthouse, and their
twins, Lauren who is a Health and Physical
Education teacher on Long Island and Jason who is
an Assistant District Attorney in Queens County.
Submitted by Mike
Solomon
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